Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Another Day in Paradise) (edited)

I'm not saying Ukraine truly is paradise, though my experience here has been very positive so far. It has a very different... feel than the US, one I am very happy to be able to experience firsthand. The word that comes to mind when describing the Ukrainians I have come in contact with to this point is "shy" reserved. I don't mean that in a derogatory or negative way at all. Let me see if I can explain.

USians (or as we like to call ourselves, somewhat egotistically, Americans, as if we are the only nation in 2 continents who have a right to use that name), tend to be somewhat brash, forward, loud and intimidating. Not all USians (I promise someday all of the US will be using it... just watch), many I know are not like that at all, but enough that it is noticeable in most public places.

In Ukraine, I have visited a number of sites, venues, ridden the subway (Metro), and eaten meals in a few different cafes and restaurants so far. Even in the subway, there was a sense of "shyness" reserve, of an inherent politeness. Yes, people pushed to get on and off, just like in the subway in New York, just like the Underground in London. But there was a difference that I haven't felt anywhere else. People here seem to be more content to wait their turn, more willing to allow others common courtesies. In restaurants, the waitstaff seems more considerate, more polite than in the US. You never feel rushed, but at the same time you don't feel ignored. Again, these are first impressions, but so far I like what I've experienced.

I have a number of pictures, but it's late here, so I will post them in the morning.

Edit: after spending another day in Kiev, I don't think shy is the correct word, I think reserved and polite are more accurate and appropriate.

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